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[lydia]

I read an article about marriage, think it is true and wanna to share with you.

Tips to make a happy marriage:
1. Never both be angry at the same time.
2. Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire.
3. If one of you has to win an argument, let it be your partner.
4. If you have to criticise, do it lovingly.
5. Never bring up mistakes of the past.
6. Neglect the whole world rather than each other.
7. Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled.
8. At least once every day try to compliment your partner.
9. When you have done something wrong, be ready to admit it and ask for forgiveness.
10. It takes two to make a quarrel, and the one in the wrong is the one who does the most talking.

[spread_truth]

I came across this forum browsing thru some website, and I found the points here for a happy marriage. Honestly, whatever points you post here don't work.
I have all the things to opposed to all the points above. Don't get me wrong it's my own opinon and I guess life is such.

Tips to make a happy marriage:
1. Never both be angry at the same time.
- I don't believe in this. HOW can both not be angry with each when there's and heated argument going on?
2. Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire.
- Try practicing this. IT does not work. it would really end up having the house on fire!
3. If one of you has to win an argument, let it be your partner.
- I always thought about this point. I tried it. DOES NOT WORK!.
4. If you have to criticise, do it lovingly.
- This point does make sense, but in reality it does not work. Honestly, sometimes I do hope that this point actually works. Not many people are able to criticised thier love ones in a loving method. It would always turns out ugly
5. Never bring up mistakes of the past.
- Does not work either. I believe everyone has encountered this problem once or twice in thier lives
6. Neglect the whole world rather than each other.
- I've seen couples who do that, they totally neglect the world, but they have become extinct. Alot of this things now work only one way, I have friends (women especially) who are willing to give up thier world for one man, but the man, does not do the same, he rather neglect his partner than the world.
7. Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled.
- This is a very good point. BUT, here's the set-back you would still go to sleep.
8. At least once every day try to compliment your partner.
- I have not seen this....hmm no comments. some guys hate the looks of thier partner.
9. When you have done something wrong, be ready to admit it and ask for forgiveness.
- I agree to this point to a certain extent, I hate to say but this point hates me.
10. It takes two to make a quarrel, and the one in the wrong is the one who does the most talking.
- This I must agree.

Don't get me wrong, I am not a person who hates being in love or hates being married. I am very much in love with someone very special and I'm just stating a fact here. I do hope whoever reads this understand, I'm neither male nor female, I'm neutral.

Just that I find the constitution of marriage a very loving affair, but in reality the loving affair sometimes has it's ups and downs.